Why Do Some Women Offer Themselves Cheaply to men?

Okay, I said I would do this. Someone asked a question some time thus; 

“Why do some women offer themselves so cheaply to men?” 

I promised to air my views. And here it is;

Firstly, I think men contribute to over fifty percent for that. If men do not patronize them, women would get more serious with their lives. But then, that is not to say that men are to be blamed for such irresponsible actions by some women, neither is the action justified by this reason.

As a man and owner of a company, you don’t offer jobs to women if they don’t sleep with you. You don’t offer any form of help to women if you are not sure they would reciprocate in kind. You use your office as the Managing Director of an organization to sleep with all the women in the world with a promise of a job which in most cases, you don’t get to fulfill your part of the deal at the long run.

Why would women not offer themselves cheap for you when, as a man, you don’t understand any other language apart from “trade by barter”? You do not BELIEVE that it is POSSIBLE for a man in a position to genuinely help a woman in need to do that!

A friend once shared her experience with me on her desperation to sleep with just any man in sight in exchange for money because, according to her, on that particular day, she did not have a dime to call hers coupled with the fact that she had three extra mouths to feed, being an orphan with three younger brothers. She didn’t know where the next meal was going to come from. According to her, on this fateful day, she had only twenty naira on her and she didn’t know how they were going to survive. They managed to eat breakfast that day courtesy of a regular customer who gave them some pasta on credit. A friend of hers called her to come hang out with her and some two other male friends. One of the guys, a good guy, took her to his place because he really liked her and wanted to know her better and not just to sleep with her. When he didn’t make a move at taking advantage of her, she tried to make the first move because to her, this guy might not give her any money if he didn’t have a taste of her. Now, get this. She wouldn’t think this way if that was not what she had been experiencing from men. Because of her vulnerability, men take advantage of her in exchange for money. After telling them her pathetic story of being an orphan and bla bla bla, they would sympathize with her and would still not help out even though they were capable enough to unless she was willing to offer her body in return. Same story over and over. Now, she didn’t believe a man could actually be good to a woman without having some ulterior motives. Now, that is the mindset. Well, the rest of the story is history.

As a woman reading this, don’t get too excited yet because I haven’t started on the women’s part yet. I am not a feminist neither do I project macho mechanism. I am that person that writes according to how and when inspired.

Okay, I have a word or two I would like the women to take home with. You claim you are being used by men when in actual sense you are the one that asked for it. No man would use you if you don’t allow it. Hello? Am I loud enough? If you stand on your feet and work hard and earn your own money, no man would get you to sleep with them in exchange of some coin at your peril.

Some women are simply lazy. That explains why they would prefer to resort to sleeping around with different men for the sake of survival. Don’t you think that rich man worked himself up there and made his money? Why can’t you do same? Or is there any rule that says women are prohibited from getting rich?

Think about that. That’s all I’m about for now.

Thanks for reading and feel free to drop your comments.