“Refuse to sit with your back to
the future,
watching time pouring away into
the past.”
---- Uzoamaka Kalu
When I was a teenager, I used to brag to myself, “My life has not begun. It will begin when I enter the University”. This was probably because I thought or felt there was a special or perfect time and environment for me to be useful to myself and the society or probably felt there were some factors, like ‘parental interference’ hindering me from taking my future into my hands and doing things I was gifted to do. I knew my talent but I had conditioned my mind in a way that I wouldn’t do anything unless I moved away from the prying eyes of my parents...
And I wonder how many
other young people, especially, in this part of the World who had thought or
are thinking in a similar way. The truth is that the time to utilize your
abilities will never come once you have this mentality of waiting for a slated
time before you do something. It takes an extra effort to pull you out of that.
What with other distractions, school work and what have you and you will become
so used to postponing what you have to do that it becomes normal to you and if
not curbed, you grow old postponing your dreams and you know what happens
afterwards, you end up living an unfulfilled and poverty-stricken life. You
know that pang that reminds you that you are yet to fulfil your obligations on
earth.
I knew I could do
writing but I kept it on hold telling myself I would start writing once I gained
admission into the University. I kept on dreaming of how I would write my own
books. The truth is, there is no better time. Take each day and do something. A
little here, a little there and you will be amazed at how much you would have
achieved in a little while by the time you put them all together.
You do not need any
special time or preparation to do what you have been called to do. Besides,
while you wait for that “right” time, a lot of distractions would have come in
the way to help mar your intentions. Sometimes, you might be like, you are
waiting for the big thing. But while you wait for the “big thing”, are you
going to sit and fold your arms and let the clock tick away? This is the most
mistake made by most young people. They finish their Secondary Education for
instance, write their University Entry Exams and now waiting to be granted
admission into the University. Oh! Of course, the University! Everyone wants to
go there (especially, in this part of the world)! Waiting for that University
admission! Now, they do not mind waiting till eternity, sitting at home doing absolutely
nothing but wait! Being a University graduate is fantastic, a wonderful honour,
as long as this part of the world is concerned. But I’ve got news for you. Going
to University is just a trend, especially, in this present day Nigeria. Most
people do it just because they don’t want to be left out. Gone are the days
when a University degree was a first class ticket to better life because, then,
good jobs abounded for graduates but we are in a new era now where graduates
roam the streets from year to year hunting for jobs. Most young people here would
write University entry exams (you might want to call it JAMB) year after year
without success until they become frustrated and depressed as a result but I
assure you, it wouldn’t be much of a trouble to you if you had something to
fall back on. I’m not saying it’s wrong to be a graduate, no! But one ought to
have a focus in life. What is your focus for wanting to be a University
graduate? Is it because others are doing it? Is it because you are desperately
hungry for a white collar job when in reality you have been destined to be a
greatly successful farmer? That is why you see most of our graduates with their
degree certificates roaming the streets all in the name of hunting for a white
collar job. What do you do when the job is not forth-coming? You end up a
hungry graduate whose hopes are shattered or you are lured into soiling your
hands with one dirty business after another.
While you wait for
that admission into the University, if you must attend it, look for something
to fill in the gap. Don’t stay idle and only trust that University education is
the solution to all your life problems. Learn a trade. Learn some handwork and
when the University finally comes, you would have been at an advantage unlike
your other counterparts who would only depend on University to miraculously
turn their lives positively around. That way, you can independently and
comfortably see yourself through school if your parents are still struggling
financially. You have absolutely nothing to lose learning a trade or handwork
while you wait for school. Who says you cannot do that white collar job while
you still own your own businesses and be an employer of labour. If the
University admission proves so tough to come by, give up on it. It could be
that there is another form of education that suits you better. Think about it!
There is the polytechnic, there are other courses one can do outside the
University. Go learn some computer program. Do some other program. There are a
whole lot of them, Technical, Human Resources, Education, Electronics,
Photography, Creative Writing, Film-making, Radio and TV presenting, and what
have you.
One thing, whatever
you do, ensure that you love it and do it with all passion and you will come
out tops with it. It might take time but bear in mind that patience is part of hard
work.
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